Thanksgiving is less than a week away and for a few days now I have been having thoughts of reminding others that our loved ones who have passed on visit us more around the holidays. I guess many do feel lonely this time of year and yearn for those who have passed over and could use some comfort. However for the most part I have not done anything to remind people though as I figure 1. those who believe already know this and 2. those who do not aren't going to believe me now, who am I to say anything and change peoples hearts? But...as usual the universe is stronger willed than I am and I am nagged into submission so I am writing this now for ears that want to hear....and the thing that pushed me over the edge is the IM I got today.....
this is what she told me:
I wanted to tell what happened this morning. On my way to work I stopped at Stop & Shop on the highway when I get out of my car I found a $20 bill on the ground. I wasn’t sure what I was going to do with it until I got into the store. The two women that are homeless was sitting at a table by the pharmacy drinking coffee. So I went up to them and proceeded to introduce myself. I told them what I had found and the one woman told me that God left it there for me so I told her I believe that he left it there for me to give to them. As we talked the quieter of the two asked if my mothers name was Dolores I said yes but my mom has been dead for many years.This gave me chills down my spine as though my mom was telling me this is what I was supposed to do. I just figured you would get a kick out of this. Of course I did it because that’s what I was brought up to do.She didn't want to take the money at first, she told me she had money for the day. I said well will you please take it for tomorrow or for thanksgiving. She took it and thank me over and over.
So those of you who are open minded enough to believe do know that our loved ones are around more this time of year, my Grandma has come to me more than once over the years at holiday time with messages. Weather you feel them there or not you can speak to them and they will hear you and if it brings you comfort you can even set a place for them at the table. I myself haven't fully developed this gift of seeing/hearing/feeling spirits (although I did smell cookies baking a few times when I was going through some particularly dark times during my marriage) but I have instead been blessed with coming into contact with many people who can see/hear/ talk to dead people. I get so excited sometimes and want to share the stories with my family but most of them do not want to hear them, or they make funny faces at me or call me crazy, call it evil etc. I feel sad for them as they are missing out but I do not let it bother me anymore, I know when they get there they will learn the truth....
When we die we do not leave we just go to the other side, and we wait for and watch over our loved ones. I wish Grandma was here for real though as I so miss the Thanksgivings of my youth, Grandma would make a huge feast (no one could cook like her), relatives would even come from far away with many cousins to play with, memories were made that will always last, not just a lifetime but for eternity. So take some time and look for the signs that loved ones are near and even if you feel a sadness or loss in your life this holiday season do take the time to make some memories this holiday season with whomever you can find to share a meal with, memories are after all the only gifts we get to keep........
With Love and in the Light, Cassie
